Friday, June 20, 2014
My "It's Not Fair" Face
I don't know if just women do this, but I find myself comparing myself to other people all the time. "Oh, I wish I had Caradon's gorgeous, thick hair instead of my thin, limp hair." Then there is, "I wish my teeth were as white as Samantha's," or "I wish I was as thin as that girl," or "I wish I could wear that outfit." It's sad that I find myself comparing my weaknesses against everyone else's strengths. But, doing this got me thinking...are there people out there wishing they could be like me? Is there someone out there wishing that they had kind, well-behaved kids? Is there someone out there wishing they had a really hot husband who also cooked, scraped the dry skin off their feet, and thought his wife was beautiful? I'm sure there is, and sometimes I wish that person would say something to me. It would be nice every once in a while to hear something good from someone who isn't required to think you are amazing.
Because I feel that way, I always try to do the same for other people. Every time I see someone with beautiful hair, or really great style, or a fabulous handle-bar moustache...I tell them! It certainly never hurts, and they usually respond with a smile and a "thank you!" Hopefully, what goes around will come around and more people will be willing to pay compliments instead of moping with their "It's Not Fair" face, just wishing they were somebody else. I'm going to work on that--try to see my strengths more often and when I look in the mirror, no more pouting. I'll just have to see the good things and maybe someday I'll believe them.